तुमचा देवावर विश्वास आहे का?

जरा खालील चित्रामधील ॐ कडे एकाग्रतेने पहा.

If you see the pink dots dissapearing, then it proves that you believe in god..

Selfishness vs Self-Responsibility

One of the last things any of us want to be called is “selfish”. We often end up doing things we don’t want to do to avoid being seen as selfish.

“Aren’t I being selfish if I take care of myself instead of take care of everyone else? Am I being selfish if I do what I want instead of what someone else wants me to do?”

The problem occurs because of an inaccurate definition of “selfish.”

We are being selfish when:

• We expect others to give themselves up for us.

• We make others responsible for our feelings of pain and joy.

• We get angry at others for doing what they want to do rather than doing what we want them to do.

• We consistently make our own feelings, wants, needs and desires important without also considering others feelings, wants, needs and desires.

• We believe we are entitled to special treatment, such as not having to wait in line.

We are being self-responsible when:

• We take care of our own feeling, wants, desires and needs rather than expecting others to take care of us.

• We support others in doing what brings them joy, even when they are not doing what we want them to do.

• We show caring toward others for the joy it give us rather than out of fear, obligation, or guilt.

• We have the courage to take loving action in our own behalf, even if someone gets angry with us. For example, we go to bed early because we are tired, even if our partner gets angry at us for not watching a movie with him or her.

• We have the courage to speak our truth about what we will or will not do, and what we do or do not feel, rather than give ourselves up to avoid criticism, anger or rejection.

Giving ourselves up to avoid being called selfish is not self-responsible – it is manipulative and dishonest. When we give ourselves up to avoid criticism, we are trying to control how another feels about us.

Taking loving care of ourselves, with no intent to harm another is self-responsible. Yet we are often called “selfish” when we take care of ourselves.

It is important for each of us to define selfishness and self-responsibility for ourselves so that we are not dependent upon others’ definition of us. When you become secure in knowing that you not only have the right, but the responsibility, to support your own joy and highest good – with no intent to harm another – then you will not be tempted to give yourself up when someone tells you that you are selfish for not doing what he or she wants you to do. When we are secure in knowing that our own intent is a loving one, we do not have to manipulate others into defining us as caring by giving ourselves up.

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My blog got 5555 visits,
The Marathi virtual keyboard software developed by me is downloaded by nearly 1000 peoples,
More than 500 people got kundli from me,
ब्लॉगला भेट दिल्याबद्दल मी आपणां सर्वांचा आभारी आहे ,
i’m thinking about migrating this blog to new “.com” domain, i haven’t yet buyed the domain name, so keep enjoying stay on WORDPRESS.COM!

thanks & regards,
Nitin Sawant

Starting new IT software company in India

NIIT CEO Arvind Thakur on SiliconIndia says:
There are 10 things needed to run successful software company in India,

1. Inspiring vision
   Without doubt, people are the main assets in any software firm. To get these assets to deliver their best, they need to be aligned to an inspiring vision and everyone aligning to this brings out the best in them and produces unbelievable results.
2. Culture of innovation
   Anyone can start a software company. The barriers to entry are low, particularly in IT services. Good ideas and business models easily attract funding. Speed, therefore, is of essence and the only way to stay ahead and survive is to continuously innovate. The culture of innovation instills a sense of creativity and risk taking, with a heightened tolerance for failure.
3. Ability to take risks
   To keep pace with rapid changes in the environment, it is important to take risks. Software businesses need to build on multiple options and prepare for uncertainties. The culture of innovation allows people to take risks. With such a culture the organization is not scared of failures, but learns from them.
4. Differentiate
   In the fast-paced knowledge industry, where market forces continuously bring in new players, innovation to continuously built product and services differentiation, shapes competitive and operational performance. Keeping one finger on the market pulse to be able to identify the differentiator is what sets a company apart.
5. Branding and Marketing
   Often ignored by the services industry, Branding and Marketing is perhaps the most important external activity of the company. The key differentiators in the company’s business, product or services need to be communicated effectively so that potential services seekers can recall these offerings.
6. Pick your battles
   Organizations need to know their strengths and invest in building those as core competencies. IT solutions are complex and it is not necessary to build all the capabilities within the organization. Companies need to know when to partner.
7. Invest in People
   In today’s context, competition is not only for business but the best talent. Winning the race for talent is crucial for success. The motivators for software professionals are unique. What is essential is a great culture which promotes growth, development and provides for a challenging and fulfilling environment. Investing in this environment is the key to success.
8. Continuous Communication
   Growth leads to the addition of new people and natural attrition brings in new faces continuously into the organisation. The vision, goals and aspirations of a company need to be regularly reinforced through continuous communication so that the workforce remains aligned to the values and beliefs of the organisation. Continuous communication is essential and brings in a sense of belongingness.
9. Delivery Excellence
   Flawless delivery is a base assumption for any software company but we all know that software development often encounters problems. These relate to quality, timeliness and costs. In most cases, timeliness of delivery are most important.
10. Exemplary Leadership
    Successful software companies are characterised by exemplary leaders. Successful leaders create a culture within their organisations that attracts and retains talent. They are able to communicate effectively their vision and articulate a cohesive strategy to achieve it.

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Protect Yourself From Positive Energy Sucking Vampires

Our relationships at office are governed by a give and take of energy. Some coworkers and colleagues make us more electric or at ease. Yet others suck the life right out of us. As a physician and energy specialist I want to verify that energy vampires roam the workplace sapping our exuberance. With patients and in my workshops I’ve seen their fang marks and the carnage they’ve strewn. But most of us don’t know how to identify and cope with vampires, so we mope around as unwitting casualties, enduring a preventable fatigue.

Here are some types of energy vampires to watch for at work and ways to deal with them.

Vampire #1: The Sob Sister
Every time you talk to her she’s whining. She adores a captive audience. She’s the coworker with the “poor me” attitude who’s more interested in complaining than solutions.

How to Protect Yourself: Set clear boundaries. Limit the time you spend talking about her complaints. With a firm but kind attitude say, “I’m sorry I can only talk for a few minutes today.” And go on with your work.

Vampire #2: The Drama Queen
This vampire has a flair for exaggerating small incidents into off-the-chart dramas. My patient Sarah was exhausted when she hired a new employee who was always late for work. One weeks he had the flu and “almost died.” Next, his car was towed, again!. After this employee left her office Sarah felt tired and used.

How to Protect Yourself: A drama queen doesn’t get mileage out of equanimity. Stay calm. Take a few deep breaths. This will help you not get caught up in the histrionics. At work, set kind but firm limits. Say, “You must be here on time to keep your job. I’m sorry for all your mishaps, but work comes first.”

Vampire #3:The Constant Talker or Joke Teller
He has no interest in your feelings; he’s only concerned with himself. Initially, he might seem entertaining, but when the talking doesn’t stop, you begin to get tired. You wait for an opening to get a word in edgewise but it never comes. Or he might physically move in so close he’s practically breathing on you. You edge backwards, but without missing a beat, he steps closer again. “One patient said about such a coworker, ‘Whenever I spot this man my colon goes into spasm.”

How to Protect Yourself: Know that these people don’t respond to nonverbal cues. You must speak up and interrupt. Listen for a few minutes- then from a neutral place politely say, “I’m a quiet person, so please excuse me for not talking a long time—a much more constructive tack than “Keep quiet, you’re driving me crazy!”

Vampire #4. The Fixer Upper
This vampire is desperate for you to fix her endless problems—at all hours. She turns you into her therapist. At lunch, she’ll make a b-line to your desk, monopolizing your free time. Her neediness lures you in.

How to Protect Your Energy: Do not become the “rescuer.” Show empathy but resist offering solutions. Be supportive but tell her, “I’m confident you’ll find the right solution” or sensitively suggest that she seek a qualified professional for help.

Vampire #4: The Blamer
This vampire has a sneaky way of making you feel guilty or lacking for not getting things just right. Whenever my patient Marie, a book editor, sees her boss she’s on guard; her boss had a way of cutting her down that saps her energy. She always has a negative comment to make.

How to Protect Yourself: Try this visualization. Around this person imagine yourself surrounded by a cocoon of white light. Think of it as a protective covering that keeps you from being harmed. Tell yourself that you are safe and secure here. The cocoon filters out the negativity so it can’t deplete you.

Vampire #5: Go For The Jugular Friend
This type is vindictive and cuts you down with no consideration for your feelings. He says things like, “Forget that job. It’s out of your league.” These jabs can be so hurtful it’s hard to get them out of your head.

How To Protect Yourself: Eliminate them from your life whenever possible. For a boss who isn’t going anywhere try a visualization that put you at a distance from them, and refuse to ingest the poison. If you don’t want to switch jobs, realize he’s a wounded person; try not to take his meanness personally.

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ABOUT THE AUTHOR:Judith Orloff M.D. is a psychiatrist and energy specialist, author of the new book Positive Energy: Ten Extraordinary Prescriptions for Transforming Fatigue, Stress, and Fear Into Vibrance, Strength, and Love. She is also author of the bestsellers Guide to Intuitive Healing and Second Sight. She is Assistant Clinical Professor of Psychiatry at UCLA, has a private practice in Los Angeles, and leads workshops on the interrelationship of intuition, energy, and medicine. She was featured in the Fortune Magazine Most Powerful Women Summit. For more information on Dr. Orloff’s books and workshops visit drjudithorloff.com.

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12 things to do before exams

On 12th March 2009 we have final Practical Exam and
On 6th April there is final
Bsc Computer Science Mumbai University Exam.

My time table for practical exam:

Batch 3 Session 1
Time: 9.30 am to 12.30 pm

12 Mar 2009 => Group II (Visual basic, Linux &VB.NET),SSAD Project

13 Mar 2009 => Group I AC(HTML,CSS,JavaScript,DHTML,XML,ASP,ASP.NET)WEB Project

14 Mar 2009 => Group I (Advanced Java) Group II (Visual C++)

12 things to do before exams:

1. Don’t Panic.
   Avoid panic. Exam nerves are natural but panicking will only make things worse and
   you may not be able to think clearly.
2. Stay positive.
   Believe in yourself. If you prepare for your exams properly you should do fine. Your
   teachers have worked hard to make sure you have studied everything you need to for the
   exam. They believe you can do it and so should you. If you believe you can do it, then
   you can.
3. Don’t bottle things up.
   If the exams are making you feel worried or depressed, talk to your friends, your
   parents/guardians or your teachers. Don’t bottle things up. You’re not the only one to
   feel worried about exams – we’ve all been there. Remember, everyone reacts in
   different ways to exams.
4. Keep things in perspective.
   Exams might seem like the most important thing you have to focus on right now, but
   they are only a small part of your life. There are thousands of successful people who
   didn’t do as well as they wanted in their exams. It’s great to do well but remember that
   you can only do your best and that is what your teachers and your parents/guardians ask
   of you.
5. Plan.
   Make sure you leave plenty of time to revise so that you don’t have to cram at the last
   minute. If you plan you will become more confident and will be better prepared for
   your exams so you should also be more relaxed. Include some flexibility in your plan in
   case something happens and you fall behind your timetable/schedule.
6. Rest and relaxation.
   Make sure you allow yourself time for fun and relaxation away from where you are
   studying so that you avoid exhaustion. Include regular breaks into your study plan or
   timetable and make sure you get enough exercise and sleep to keep yourself relaxed and
   refreshed. If you exercise you will be able to sleep better and you will wake up
   refreshed in the morning.
   If you feel you are starting to lose concentration, take a short break. Your mind is
   probably tired and you will waste time trying to study. The break will mean that you
   will come back refreshed. Research shows that taking breaks (eg 10 minutes for every
   hour of studying) will help your brain to learn and remember things and also lengthen
   your concentration. Don’t overload your brain in a study session.
   You are not wasting time by taking some time out to relax from your studies but are
   helping yourself to work more effectively.
7. Ask for help.
   If you don’t understand something ask your friends, parents/guardians or your teacher
   for help. You may find that you can help a classmate in something they don’t
   understand – you may be able to help each other. Don’t stress yourself but take action
   to find out answers to problems.
8. Use revision papers.
   You can use revision papers to prepare mock exam answers which will help you focus
   your revision. They will also help you get used to the way questions are asked and how
   they should be answered. The more you practice, the more confident you will become.
   You can also make up your own questions.
   There are also a number of study guides available that you might find useful and these
   can be purchased at most good bookstores.
9. Eat and drink well.
   Fizzy drinks, tea and coffee contain caffeine and this can mean that you’re not able to
   think as clearly. You can keep your mind active by eating healthily and regularly. If
   you don’t drink enough you could dehydrate and you may suffer from headaches,
   tiredness and poor concentration.
   On the morning of an exam, make sure you eat breakfast. Go for something like
   wholegrain cereals eg bran, egg, toast which are slow energy burners.
10. Study away from distractions.
    Make sure you have a quiet area to study with no distractions. Turn the television off.
    Don’t fall into the trap of watching one programme and then starting your study. You’ll
    quickly find that it’s time to go to bed when you’re about to turn off the television. This
    will only knock your studying back and cause you stress and anxiety.
    Take short rests during your study time for relaxation away from where you are
    studying. If your mind gets too tired you will have difficulty remembering what you
    have been studying.
    If you prefer to study in the evening, don’t go straight to bed afterwards because your
    mind will still be thinking over what you have learnt. Take some exercise, go for a
    walk or do something else that will help relax you from your study time.
11. Prepare everything you need for the exam.
    The night before the exam, make sure you have your calculator (if needed), your pens
    and pencils, your admission card and a watch so you can monitor the time during the
    exam. Your teacher or your examinations officer can advise you on what you are
    allowed to take into each examination.
12. Exam day rush.
    Instead of trying to learn new topics on the day of the exam, look over your notes/key
    points.
    Don’t leave yourself short of time on the day of an exam. Work out how you are
    getting to the exam and make sure you have plenty of time to get there so that you are
    not rushed. If you have time, you may want to find a quiet place to relax rather than
    waiting outside the examination centre with the accompanying noise and tension from your classmates.

        

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Add Social Bookmark Bar to your Blog

If you are an advanced user then move along
I wrote my own HTML code for social boomark bar so that I and many other people having free blog can add the social bookmark bar on their blog,

If you want to add the same to your blog then follow the steps
there is no need of having any coding knowledge,
1. Download the SocialBookmark.doc file.
Download the doc file click here

2. Copy and paste the html code into notepad
open the doc file, press Ctrl+A , copy all the code from doc file into notepad

3. Replace the XXXX
In notepad window press Ctrl+H ,this will open Replace window
In the “Find what” box write XXX and in “Replace with box” write the URL of your blog or blogpost, click on “Replace All” button

4. Copy the code to your blog post
Copy and paste the code from notepad to the end of your blog post,
this will put the bookmarks bar at the bottom of your blogpost

5. finished..
No fifth step… all done..

Attachment: SocialBookmark.doc

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